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Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Abena(f) : 6:20 am |
pls help nana...
lPlease i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests. I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older. All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 70k GHC ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way. The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at on his way to capecost. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to Tema at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones. There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around Accra without a car. I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky. I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired. I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 20’s and i really need to settle down. Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u. Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Anna(f) : 8:27 am |
I totally get you, abena. But I want you to know that are still bunch of good guys in Ghana, just that sometimes it takes divine intervention to meet them.
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by peamoah(m) : 11:30 am |
Well Abena, you need not show how desperate you are for a man, that is my advice. We guys are always available and everyone wants where there milk and honey.
You need to join this social clubs and groups at church and not clubs and parties and be a little responsive and not hard but i know a lady can tell when a guy is trying to fall for her. But the car and the others will come, just be yourself. For me we can be good friends if you are interested.
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by KayJunior(m) : 11:27 am |
Ok so I read what you have written and in my humble opinion, just relax, make some friends and get to know who they really are. The right guy will pick you up. We can be friends if you don't mind
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by EA524(m) : 3:20 pm |
in my opinion u have to pray about this matter. secondly you should be friends with the guys who ask you out for some time, you get to know them...and if you're still suspicious about their intentions or character u can get an investigator to chech up on their background.
from the looks of things, you're a nice person to be with. just be patient... your time will come.
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by quacojr(m) : 6:19 pm |
I think you need to relax, as u said u're in ur early 20s so don't settle for the first nice guy that approaches u and also pray for God's guidance. I'm sure good guy will find u soon as long as you are patient okay.
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by slim02(m) : 1:59 pm |
Abena am sorry about your situation, my advice for you is to keep calm and pray for God's intervention. I know you want some qualities in your guy, let's say loving, caring or something. Interpreting what you wrote in my own analysis, you are an independent lady. If so, you have to start learning how to be dependent on your guy which I know you will be a bit difficult, it's about time you play them with the same rules they have been playing you for the past years. Don't let it get soo excited on your path just do it to find your Mr right.
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by mends(m) : 4:53 pm |
I also as a guy face such situations as a Tuesday born. Am Kwabena. All the ladies i meet cheat on me n i use the lil dat i ve to help them bt later damp me n leave cos i show up to b too kind n caring searching for marriage. I ve given up. i dont wanna marry at all or get myself in a relationship. i c myself not b lucky.
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Detinho(m) : 7:36 pm |
You have to be strong. It seems most guys notice you are weak at heart and they take advantage of you. Shine your eyes!
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