Good day everyone, who else among the guys here on upghana has experienced this..?!

For the past 6yrs that I've been on the dating scene, I've experienced a lot of misses rather than hits in my dating game, this is not due to the fact I lacked the looks, charm, smarts etc. I noticed a scenario that always repeated itself, which was when ever I approached a girl, we would click instantly, she would flash all the green lights flashable, we would have a lot in common & get along really well, then whenever I finally ask her for us to be "exculsive".... The horror film begins...

They never tell me No or a yes.. I'm not friendzoned neither am I in the dating zone, I more than a friend to her but less than a BF, when I ask them why they can't give me an answer, they give all manner of reasons such as; you are too good for me, I like you a lot but I don't love, let's be more than friends but I can't date you ( wt* ), I don't know what I feel towards you...let's keep what we have....and blah blah blah...


Most times I give them time to sort out their feelings coming back again to ask hoping to get a good answer but their emotions are still in a state of flux.. I'll give up and move on ( when I move on I move on totally no looking back grin), only for this ladies who seemly had nothing for me to come back (vengeful) when they see me hooking up with another chick, then they start all manner of theatrics....then I begin to wonder is it not the same girl who had "Nothing" for me...

This scenario as played out more than 5 times with me... I'll like to know if other guys here have experienced this or are also experiencing this....

Sorry for the long essay.. cheesy

I experienced it once. She said 'she didnt like me that way', but when i told her i was moving on...she was like no, she didnt want me to get committed to another girl. It's like they need attention without commitment. Then again, they might just be stretching you to see if you truely love them. On the other hand the sight of seeing u happy with another girl probably makes them jealous.

they can form ehhhh. Some of them self if you talk to them finish and they say No, then you approach their friend, they will start saying this guy like girls too much. As As how??

I've been and i'm still in this situation. Well, i change my strategy and i get to know they are interested but i also pull out.